to the poster who asked about my husband not speaking to me, and if that was a common thing...
No, it's not common, and the reason he wasn't speaking to me is because he thought I was mad at him for bringing up the sex thing in the first place. Sometimes I DO get pissed cuz we talk about it alot, and he knows what I'm going through and that I'm trying to change/fix/figure-it-the-hell-out, and I feel big time pressured when he brings it up. So he was avoiding me cuz he thought I was mad. hahahaha