Re: don't wanna have sex at all, affecting my marriage

It's not black and white. Yes, low hormones and Depression can bring on such feelings. If you noticed, I did ask her if her feelings were about being angry with her husband over something. Also, someone who was depressed, most likely won't want anyone touching him/her.

As for the husband going outside the marriage for sex---sorry that's just wrong, unless a couple is in an open marriage and both agree to the conditions. (However, I do wonder why someone would want to be married under those circumstances, but then I digress...). Would you say it was OK for the husband to cheat if his wife had a physical ailment such as cancer or MS, for example? Obviously, someone with a serious illness isn't going to want to have sex and maybe not even want to be touched.

As I said before, she needs to get to the bottom of why she is feeling that way. I also said that obviously she, at one point, wanted her husband to touch her or she wouldn't have married him. Yes, she may have fallen out of love with him. She also may still love him but Depression or low hormones could be clouding her judgement. Tweet