don't wanna have sex at all, affecting my marriage

Ugh, I've really been having the worst time... I just don't want to to have sex at all. Okay that's not quite right. Sometimes I do feel like I want to but as soon as my husband touches me, I just wanna run screaming cuz it makes my skin crawl. And even when I do give in, nothing feels good. No matter where he touches me, it just feels like nothing. This has been going on for a couple years, but it's gotten worse recently, probably from stress cuz he got laid off work and I'm looking for work too after being home with our son the last 3 years. I mentioned this to my gyno the last time I was there for other things, but she acted like it was no big deal and I would get over it. Plus she put me on the Pill that time, for other things that are going on w/ me hormonally, and I think that's causing a problem too. But if I quit taking it, then I'm back to the problems I had before. I just don't know what to do and now my husband isn't speaking to me cuz I turned him down again last night. Please help! Tweet