You truly are phenomenal! Your insight and viewpoints have angles that I just haven't given thought to. Some of it I have, but some I have not. I suppose deep down I already know everything you are telling me, I just do not want to hurt him because I know he has a good heart. I know it's in there somewhere (I think). I've been looking at houses, changing passwords to online accounts, just general preparation for that moment. As I think about leaving and being on my own it truly makes me happy, but I guess you could say (as of now) I just do not have the nerve or heart to do it to him.
Thank you again. Question for you; "How have you gained your insight into these situations? Have you had your own situations to deal with?"