Re: Male responsability in abortion

It's not just not enough to say "I am not going to debate what type of life the child would have. We do not know." We DO know what this child is up against; a mother who doesn't love it...what could be worse? But you don't care that your own child would face such a traumatic life? Would you like a mother who hates you and didn't want you?

Neither of you were responsible! I just hope you learned something. You keep repeating how easy sex is, but now you know it isn't without life-changing consequences. Remember this every time you have sex...there is ALWAYS that risk. Please be responsible to ALL the other possible unborn children in the future.

I'd re-examine my motives if I were you. It seems awfully coincidental that she breaks up with you NOW, being pregnant...why? What aren't you telling us? How long have you been together? Why does she wish to dump you now?

It's possible you are just trying to hold onto her thru the baby; many bad parents use the children as pawns to manipulate the ex...could you be one? Really, there seems to be a lot more to this situation than you are describing. Put the GF on for her side! Gotaa feeling this isn't the whole story. Good luck to both of you.