Re: Male responsability in abortion

(I assume this is the original poster?)

"I want the child" Exactly my point.

It's important to think what is BEST for the child, not what YOU want. If you really care about a child, I think you start it's life by giving it a loving stable home and mother. The world is in such a mess because too many people become parents who should not be, handicapping their own children. As you describe it's mother, she will cause no end of issues for you, but most importantly, your child. And who will likely inherit her "cold and callus" gene? And whatever else causes her to change without notice or reason?

All you say is what YOU want, not what is best for the child:

"I will have no problem dealing with being a parent even if the courts only give me the opportunity to be a part time parent (which would be her decision also"

So, you're more than willing to let this unstable woman bring up your child? Is that what is best for the child? Obviously not.