I have tried to talk with her and she now refuses. The last conversation was that she was through with me and did not want the child. I was told I have nothing to say in the matter and she will simply do it with or without me. She said she is getting it done this week.
I have only heard about failed attempts with the legal issues.
I have the moral issues with all of it, but I am not in a position to change the outcome. I feel by giving the money I am supporting it and giving the means, but as an adult that had sex is it my responsibility to do what I don't believe for her?
Believe me I am very distraught over this. Emotionally I can barely function right now, but it seems that I am a male without any rights. The unfortunate fact of our society.