I am not asking who is right and who is wrong. I truly hope that she has thought everything through. I can not tell you everything on how she has come to this decision, I don't know. I hope she realizes that this decision will impact the rest of her life. I also know it will impact mine. I was ask without consent or discussion to provide the means for this (the cash). I believe not because she needs it but because then I also agree. I know that I don't agree. My question is do I still have to provide my consent because I was involved with the situation but unfortunately have no control. I am not concerned about the money I am concerned that I am giving my approval.