I want the child. I want the child to have a chance. I will have no problem caring for the child. Trust me money is not the issue at all, but am I supposed to pay to support the death of it. The issue is how I believe and that I was told that she believed the same. I was encouraged to became attached to what we would be having. Now she changes and I am simply supposed to throw my feeling away and pay with out say. Shouldn't I as a parent do everything to stop this and not contribute? I have supported the child's right to live so far, now because of her emotional state, we simply terminate? Even if the child had her as a mother, at least it would have the opportunity to develop to be whatever. Yes parenting is not an easy task, Sex is the easy part, but I will have no problem dealing with being a parent even if the courts only give me the opportunity to be a part time parent (which would be her decision also)