Sigh! You do have DQ all wrong. Really. I wish you knew him better and maybe you could get to know him in another forum. His intentions were to help really, but I won't get into it further as this is a cancer support forum, not a debate forum, and I would only be hurting other people.
And as for my posts, I do thank you. And you seemed to retain a sense of humor at my popping off at you. hmmm.... But did you give me a negative vote?