Re: I can't get over it. I know you guys dislike the guy

You will let go when you are ready.

It will not be because any of us encouraged you.
Although, as time passes, perhaps you will be
reminded of our words as you watch your relationship
with this man unfold.

Most of us who have posted here have gone through
our own cycles of pain. Once it hurts enough,
you let go. We have done this enough to be able
to say, expect this, but hard to say if there are
any shortcuts. You are more invested in being in
this relationship than you want to admit.

It is not about disliking some guy either, but
is about empowering you. It is about the voice
of experience speaking up. There are times I have
wished older women had shared more with me what
to expect on many issues. Other times, I have had
this benefit and it has made all the difference.

If you are depressed, it is a sign that it is time
for you to own the responsibility to make yourself
comfortable. Reach out to you and nurture and learn
to love yourself so that it is not such a tumultuous
event when someone comes into your life, or leaves.

Let us know how your story ends or begins...

blessings & best wishes,
Zoe

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