HI Sugar,
I have not been here for a few days and came across your post.
Well, talk about giving some one perspective. My loss pales compared to this.
I can see with my own life that it is what I do with the situations that helps me move forward. And I would not even begin to understand what you have been through.
I can't imagine that you have drawn any of this in your life. For, I do not think we are responsible for another's actions.
I am not as evolved as others on here, so I do not want to say things I do not know about. I just wanted to give you a hug and tell you that you are in my prayers. I pray you find Peace.
Love,
Kolby