I think you need to get over it also. I see no need in coddling any ones abusive behavior. One can only play the victim card for so long. This guys is a walking hazard and shouls be not allowed to breed. He has 5 kids and one on the way and three mates with out a clue as to how he will deal with any of them. He needs to stop playing victim before he winds up as a child abuser himself. Yes reality is harsh and besides I knew he would find plenty of knee jerk liberals here to coddle him.