I hate to sound harsh but, you need to get over this! You say this guy stole a piece of you ,not true ,he may have stole three days out fo your life but no one can take from you what you don't want to give! You life is yours and nobody elses!
You also need to stop spreading your misery around , four children by three women and another one on the way! ??? And now you are getting involved with another women???
Shouldnt you stop these affairs until you can stop making babies and get your own life straightened out first??? Then maybe you can go back and help repair some of the damage you have done to your children!
Sorry but this happenend to you 10 years ago and it seems you are so tied up in your own pain you cant help but pass it on to others! Time to straighten up!