89280 you are not only harsh you are a real jerk, a real @$$hole.
Have YOU ever been KIDNAPPED and raped? Do you know what it is to have Post Traumatic Stress? I suggest you study it, and study it well, and only hope something like this never happens to you.
And this is a SUPPORT Forum, not a bashing Forum. If you don't have anything SUPPORTIVE to say to a Rape Victim, then you need to STFU.
You are the one who needs a kick in the pants! }:(