I don't disagree with anything you wrote faith. I'm very disappointed in how some were treated on the MH forum, but I don't let that stop me from benefiting from some of the great things found there. Nor should you. Don't harbor resentment.
I agree that "respect" is a big part of how we enjoy our experience here. But that can only be strongly advocated, not enforced. Nor shold it be. Any sort of censorship or putting too much control into the site is wrong also. So is petty vengeance. That's basically all I was saying.