I just wanted to say there were some good points made in here on this subjest. Anything that happens to us is our making. I had a experience one time that I'm not going to get into because of the condemnation in here, but the experience was one more thing that lead me to God.
I will say from that experience I believe God is ALL loving, and everything has a purpose, and is part of God's plan that will prevail & is good. God has all the time in the world for his plan to happen because he created time, and is beyond time. There is no past, present or future with God, they all exist at the same time with God & us after we die.