It is fair to disagree, experience outrage, and disappointment with some messages, MINE included. However, I would like to politely ask that, if any member has a personal gripe with another, please, post it at the Personal Conflict Forum:
That forum is specifically available for members to discuss their personal issues with regard to another. This ongoing bickering about who did what, who was deliberately vicious, who does this or that, places the focus of these (or, any other support forum) on negativity, defense, and spite, rather than education and/or assistance.
I asked that another thread be moved to that forum due to the negative nature of the messages - it would be a shame to have to ask a Moderator to move this thread, as well.