Re: Some possible answers to many issues.....(sorry, loong!)

Well, 18267,

Don't hesitate to ever to tell us what you don't like (such as "i just dont like it" or "i dont think i like it..."). You just keep those DECISIONS coming (don't mind the fact that it makes you judgemental and easy to feel dissapointed,...Okay, so you will always be sad because you do this, but it's what you want to do). And don't let it bother you being so egotistical as to think that we should care and that life is all about you (so that you can't see outside yourself), and never mind the fact that you feel so free to make all these evaluations about us (or that it would tend to interfere with a relationship) and everything else in life (terrible burden, I bet it makes it difficult to find happiness and only find disappointment) because the only thing that is important is that you maintain as much CONTROL in your life by being egotistically condescending and evaluating everyone and everything on this planet (even though it interferes with relationships and will be a source of constant disappointment and sadness), you just keep us informed and be a "DECIDER" (and with such intensive scrutiny too,..."if you go through all of their posts", you don't miss a thing, do you?..."responses like").


And never mind the compassion or respect stuff either, nor the ability to learn from others that are more experienced with life.

"since they have had so many bad experiences throughout their life"

Even though some people really ARE more experienced about some things, you just keep resenting them for being able to HELP you. Always keep resenting them and CALL them "know it all"s (even though they will tell you that there is no such thing, but you already know that) because you might actually develop the ability to learn from them if you start respecting people who are more experienced).


You just keep being condescending, controlling, judgemental, sad/disappointed, resentful and egotistically perpetuating a low self-esteem.


Of course, you won't have a happy life, but you will be free (in the prison of your own mind).

As a "still sane" person, I understand what the real problem is (the OBJECTIVE is the "problem") because in REAL solutions, the problem IS the objective. Your objective (to continue doing all these things) cannot have a real solution (but just the opposite). We could be helpful to you, but you've defined the objective wrong and won't let it change to be the right one...HAPPINESS.


Sorry, sometimes my sanity makes me think that happiness is desireable.

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