Re: Need advice before I make things worse..

Thank you and thank you! What great advice from you guys! So...I am seeing from both posts that maybe I should just let him be for awhile and focus on myself. Honestly I have this sort of nagging suspicion in me that I am anxious for him to change because I am anxious to change myself..shhh I can't believe i just said that aloud (sort of)i do believe the weight issue is correct as you mentioned. I've read up on fasting and as soon as I can (breasfeeding now) I intend to dive in. I was in the military briefly and I always remind myself of eating in basic training...you HAD to drink a 16 oz glass of water before AND after each meal..we only had about a minute to eat and yet i was always full and full of energy. I've started drinking the water with my meals and that seems to help me eat less. Trully my problem is I don't eat until 2 pm each day...then i eat in the evenings, i've never gained weight outside of my pregnancies but stillhave 20 lbs per kid to lose. I have this suspicion that something is subconciously holding me back from losing the weight and I am pretty sure it has to do with that ugly past of mine.

I think I'm getting the tools to be ready soon though to deal with it. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your support....just hearing your perspectives has changedmy mood, brightened my day and I find myself not so upset about my hubby now. I'm going to take the kids on a bike ride now and get some air. thank you all
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