"Don't be one of those who refuse (or are afraid) to dig deep into the Bible. Rest assured it can hold up well under the most intense scrutiny, as it has for millenia. If you think someone is twisting instead of exegeting, prove it. Show how their argument is not warranted by context. If you can't prove such a thing, then don't accuse them of engaging in "gymnastics".
She will never see the irony of her words, nor ever realize she is one of those people she complains about. R2Rs interpretation of the Bible is the most closed minded, hateful, unthinking, robotic interpretations you are likely to come across here in Curezone.
The Bible is The Golden Rule. The rest is commentary.