Seriously? Are you really that clueless? You basically told your son that his feelings are evil and he needs to cleanse the badness out of him. He's GAY. You can't just turn it off, like a light switch. It's a part of him, of his soul. And there is nothing wrong with it. Why don't you try being proud of him for being brave enough to tell you the one thing he knew you wouldn't understand? Or maybe try being a good parent and actually understanding what your son is going through, instead of just thinking about yourself. People can be so effing selfish sometimes.