From : http://www.unidiversal.com/STPEditorialsHomosexuality20041106Forum.html
Just recently my son Bobby came out to me. I had been worried for awhile. His teachers said most of his grades were slipping and he seemed depressed and withdrawn.
Bobby said he'd been hiding it for awhile because he was afraid I would reject him. I sat him down and told him that I loved him and that God loved him, but that his salvation was in danger if he did not resist his unnatural tempations. I told him how being gay would mean he would live a shorter life, and that if he couldnt change his orientation he could be celibate like most the ex-gays are. He started crying saying something along the lines of "I knew you wouldnt understand! You're just like everyone else!" before running to his room and slamming the door.
What did I do wrong? I dont want to lose my son, but I fear I already have. I talked it over with his therapist, who had the ludicrous idea that homosexuality was unchangable and that trying to repress could lead to lots of psychological damage (I've dropped him and will try to be finding another therapist with more moral beliefs). I wouldnt be surprised if he's the one who's feeding my son all the homosexual propaganda about how its 'ok' to be gay. That, or how homosexuality has engulfed the media, making it seem 'cool' and 'hip' and how they were just another oppressed minority. You didnt have to worry about seeing two men making out on tv at my age! I dont want to sound like a fanatic, but Im worried what other effects will come out of this increasingly secular, immoral society obsessed with filth.
Am I too late? Or is it possible to save my son?
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I am a mother of two and I was raised a Christian. I love Jesus and follow him.
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I have seen this post before. There is a follow-up to it from the mother telling the forum she belonged to that her son had suicided. http://message.snopes.com/showthread.php?t=2139&page=4
Follow the link.
If this is a true post then a great evil has been done. In not accepting her son as he was this mother effectively forced him into a position in which he considered his only option was NOT to be at all. *Sigh*
Link also here http://www.fstdt.com/comments.asp?id=18017I'm an aficionado of restroom graffiti - good, graffiti that is. Of course "good" is all in the eyes of the beholder. But my favorite of all time was many years ago on the wall of a stall inside a Sears and Roebuck store (when they still had that name).
On the wall was written in lamenting disdain in blue ink:
"My mother made me a homosexual."
And written just below it in a different handwriting and different color pen was:
"Gee, that's great. Have her make one for me too."
Both mothers and fathers have significantly more to do with making homosexuals (gay or lesbian) than either genes or outside factors do.
It is not too late, give him the chance to speak up about what he feels and what he really wants. Don't let him change on what he don't like give your support and try to understand him. Communication could be the key to clarify things between you and your son maybe he is just cofuse on some situation.
Hope this could help for your son:
How Cognitive Therapy Helps Treat Depression