"thank you very much!! i am going to try the
valerian. maybe it will help."
Be careful of valerian.
From an herb shop site:
Precautions
If you use valerian for several months, you may experience withdrawal
symptoms (headache, insomnia, racing heart, and general grouchiness) if you stop
using the herb abruptly. Reduce dosage of a period of about a week if you wish
to discontinue using the herb. Valerian itself does not cause side effects, but
it may increase the side effects of some of the older medications for insomnia,
such as Ativan (lorazepam), Valium, (diazempam), or Xanax (alprazolam).