Re: Hate to tell ya...

I don't think it is quite as bad as one man in a dozen who has problems with 20 pounds weight gain. My friend prefers women on the plump side, around 40 pounds overweight. Another friend had a girlfriend who was about 30 pounds overweight and he didn't have a problem with it. She was the one who was bothered with it. In fact, she ended up leaving him for another man. A woman I worked with who was extremely overweight, would go to the bars and seemed to get laid every night. So if you want it, you can get it.

I agree that people look attractive if they are healthy. My boyfriend is overweight, about 45 pounds, but he still looks all right, kind of like the Teutuls on American Chopper. But for a time he was about 70 pounds overweight which affected the sex, since we couldn't get as close...the belly was in the way. He wasn't too happy about it either. I think if he got heavier, I might have moved on. I wouldn't get sexually aroused with a man that became obese, not only because I would find him unattractive, but because it would also affect his personality and everyday living. And besides, what person wants to stay with a person that finds them unattractive. There is always someone out there that will feel differently about them.

As to cheating on the spouse, from what I see around me, that seems to happen all the time anyway. Even Halle Berry said she didn't want to see anybody anymore since every guy cheated on her.

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