Yeah, 70 pounds will kill the mood, the idea.......This is beyound a little puffy.
My wife has gained so much weight that at times I do not recognize her. There is so much to get around now that I don't know if it is worth the effort. Gaining weight at first was not an issue because we had a water bed and she just sank deeper into the matress.
Maybe some guys don't realize how they are turned off subconsciously.
I think loosing the 70 will do it. Don't you?
I know, fellow fat people always think loosing weight will solve all of their and the world's problems. In this case it might solve your's.
Good Luck..........I didn't like the SouthBeach diet, too much fat