Boyfriend broke up but hasn't moved out

My boyfriend says he's not happy and wants to break up. I posted about the situation about 2 weeks ago. We have been together over 2 years and thought he was the ONE. He is the first guy I have felt that way about. Well he is not feeling the same way and I'm devastated.

We have been living together and he told me he wants to break up the Friday before last.... but he hasn't made any move to move out. It's definitely my house, so I thought he would be moving out. Well he has been going about his business as usual except he has not been home as often but comes home at night. Some night he comes home late and I worry about where he is and if he is seeing someone. I can't deal with this.

I told him I want to try to work things out but he says it's over. If he feels that way I want him to move out but I'm afraid if he moves out then it's REALLY over. I'm so confused. I've asked him many times what he is doing. He says he doesn't want to hurt me, so I don't know if he is just staying b/c he feels bad or what. I also know that he his mattress is messed up so he needs to buy another mattress but he can go to his dad's where he was living before b/c he has extra room. I also wonder if he is being lazy and just doesn't want to move all his stuff at one time. I am noticing things disappearing one by one :(

We are also still having sex.... I want him back. I guess I sound really desperate but that is how I feel. I thought we were going to get married and have kids... my clock is ticking.

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