Re: More issues than I know what to do with...need advice

Selfish is getting involved with a man who is not your husband and who is married to another woman and has children.

Selfish is having sex with your husband whom you do not care for to satisfy your carnal desires...and in the process bring a child into the world who doesn't stand a chance of living in a normal family.

I was with you up to the point where you tried to make it look like you were just doing tings for others and all this bad stuff happened to you.

Bull!

You wanted what you wanted and you got it. Now you have two beautiful children who will bear the reprecussions of your mistakes whether you like it or not. The smart thing to do is abstain from any more relationships with men until your children are grown. After they are on their own then you may feel free to screw yourself up even more.

By the way, what makes you think that your married lover wouldn't treat you the same way he treated his wife? He loved his children so much he was ready to leave them for a lover??? That's not love, my dear...that is lust and selfishness at it's best.

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