Re: More issues than I know what to do with...need advice

never mind that your life is miserable. too bad for you; its all about the kids now. if your husband is the only father they know, then you need to work it out as best you can as long as your kids aren't in any danger as a result of him. worrying about you and your life is what got you into this situation to begin with. you've made some horrible choices all b/c you wanted to satisfy you, now its time to start fresh with your children and satisfy them. you would be doing nothing short of totally devastating your child by transforming his world introducing a father who has another family. suck it up and live for your kids - you've been selfish enough of your life. after all, you picked your drunk husband and decided to make kids with him and a lover (who's married). there were a number of steps taken to screw up your life and there's going to have to be a number of steps taken to unscrew it. do away with these fantastical thoughts of being swept off your feet by a prince charming. you've chosen to be infatuated with this guy who is cheating on his wife and kids. just consider 10 years down the line after you two married, who's to say he wouldn't get bored with you and the kids you two made and leave you for a refreshing mistress???!!! face it, you really screwed up big time. so, you taking responsibility once in your life will be the first step - do the right thing. Tweet