first of all, i dont go for looks, looks are deceiving, and i dont go for jobs either, cause im not a gold digger. i met my current boyfriend through my ex, and i started talking to my current boyfriend online and then we started talking on the phone, and we fell in love and i had no idea what he looked like, how rich he was or anything, then when i finally met him it didnt change my opinion about him. hes a great guy, im his first girlfriend so he just has to learn some lessons, and he does get payback for what he does and hes learning. he realizes what he does is wrong, and he has never repeated something that has hurt me. and i do think that some of it is my fault because of my insecurities and all but im working on it.