Re: trust issues, insecurities, jealousy issues

icedtiger,

how old are YOU then? i'd be willing to bet you are still sitting pretty in your 20's as well! LOL.

first of all, i agree with you icedtiger about not getting so uptight about the hooters thing and maybe a p 0 r n magazine once in a blue moon, but any more than that and i would be getting my size 20 boots on to use on the guys a** to get him out the door real quick.

IMO what you say all men are doing and have a right to do is just plain disrespectful. you really shouldn't hide anything from a person you are in a relationship with because you typically are in a relationship to begin with because of the trust you have with the person. i know i wouldn't want to hang out with a friend even who i couldn't trust so why would i or anyone, for that matter accept lying from their significant other. that just does not make sense or jive with me............sorry.

there must be an aweful lot of guys out there who need to grow up and have a reality check delivered to them ASAP because you really should never lie when you are in an intimate relationship. it's just not a healthy thing to do no matter how small the lie is.

now, if all men could only realize this, then maybe their opinions of us women would change. men (and some game-playing women out there) just don't realize that what they are doing is wrong is all. it's not the woman's fault it's the man who needs to bend and rearrange his way of thinking on this issue.

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