But more importantly...you've got a guy there who lies to you. Dump him. You deserve better. I wouldn't tolerate a woman who lies. Out the door. Instead of settling for losers who don't give you a reason to trust, you continually snuggle up to the next schmuck who walks your way. Life looks bleak when you continually align yourself with C- guys. Liars aren't worth dating. Once you catch him a lie...DUMP HIM. This isn't a 12-step program to see how many guys you can catch cheating. Plenty of decent dudes out there if you just raise your standards. Is that asking to much of you? There's no magical potion that raises your self-esteem overnight. If you don't believe you're worth it, why should the Mtnn Mann? American women's #1 problem: Settling for losers. You've got plenty of company out there. Remedy: Date B to B+ guys with decent looks, personalities, and jobs...ALL THREE A MUST AT THE SAME TIME...and begin to see how the trust will slowly but surely return. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt, but if he deceives you...kick him right out of the bed onto the cold, hard floor of life!