exposing dirty sectrets like this is how they get dealth with. the reason this was allowed ot go on as long as it did is because no one wanted to talk about it, so it just kept happening. exposing lies and sins is how they are brought to the light, and how they begin to be resolved. it takes a lot of courage to admit something like this and i respoect that. healing comes not through hiding over with shame, but from uncovering and bringing to the light all that is hidden.
love cannot cover over sins until they are first brought to the light, then love can begin its healing process.