The Bible rules, not feelings. Without this solid Rock we are adrift in a sea of ever-changing 'truths'. When you run out of scriptural support for your view and have no rebuttal for mine, you put feelings and experiences above objectivity. Your perception of my motivation is just that-- your perception. You are hearing exactly what you want to hear. Listen to God's unchanging Word, not your feelings, and you will 'see the light'.