Re: dear ol' dad

you said: Oh yes, allergies are often connected with emotions and boundaries.

Oh drat! So this isn't my brilliant idea? (ha!)

So- b/c I'm 2/3/5/1, 2 is my challenge?
Because that description is spot on
(lack of boundaries from poor parental example)
as is your own personal experience (you're also 2?)

With my history of codependent relationships
with withdrawn, emotionally cold people-
my current celibacy is a celebration!

You did tell me this is a big year of
growth for me, and I can feel a huge change
a' brewing. I am planning a 3 week European
vacation this fall- by myself! This is truly
an enormous step for me and I am very excited.

Just wish I could stop the obsessing over the past.
Maybe there is more to come between us in the
future? That may be more obsessional thinking- that
she will someday get it together and be able to
be with me.

Hopefully by then I'll be able to laugh at it all.

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