Re: How can I tell the woman I love that I was unfaithful?

Too late.

I was going to say 'don't tell her'.

Why mess two lives up.

You had a lifetime's worth of guilt there-and she didn't need any of that.

I hope you sort out the mess -but I for one would find you very hard to forgive.

I would have preferred to have not known-and you spending a lifetime making sure that I need never have any concern over you and our relationship.