Re: How can I tell the woman I love that I was unfaithful?

Dear user07 and all of you who struggle with similar problems,

Why to do it so complicated? Why do you invite conflicts into your life? Why do you play with other people`s feelings?

Remember there is always TWO of you, to build the bridge...!
First learn to love yourself - know your needs - and then give away!

Do we all have to wait until we are 50 years old, to dear to say who we are - to know who we are and find what we really need?

* I would tell her before i am unfaithful!

* I would never go out with a married man...or one
who is engaged, if his woman don`t know!

* I would never appreciate if he told me he is
not married and he is!

* I think If you search for a relationship, you have to be shure
about what you are searching for... BEFORE YOU GO TO SEARCH!

Find a woman who need the same kind of relationship as you do! The traditional one is not always the ideal one in our time!

* The truth is always better, why don`t you tell her WHO you are
before you involve yourself?

* You have to turn into a skillful actor if you want to ask her for her forgiveness now... you have to handle smart, knowing her weak and strong sides.

Make her a beatiful dinner prepare it with love, prepare a nice atmosphare, dark, with lots of small lights, lots of words, whisper deep and quiet words into her ear, become a better lover... (see http://www.the-clitoris.com) well explicit -

Touch her more than ever before... give her more than you ever did - be romantic if she likes it -

Be much more maskuline and strong if you think that`s what is missing, show that you deside - I think men does not always use their power they actually have according to that they are the "stronger sex", sometimes it is good to tell your woman to "shut up" - make love to her instead, she will never talk
so much anymore...

After your effort to try to tell her that she is the very best, and that you want to be honest to her, invite her to a special journey, travel to the mountains or the seaside, bring her to a course in Tantra.... plant her a tree... - and throw away the dead roses...

To know better how to handle, in your "unique" case - no couples are the same, we all think and feel different, try to analyse who you are, see a astrologer, kinesiologist, therapist or some other specialist... to talk about your relationship... or buy the book;
The Life You Were Born to Live, by Dan Millman, (Author of Way of the Peaceful Warrior), ISBN 0915811-60-X...

Light, Love, Life from Lillian

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