Ashton, be careful who you judge.

I do agree with you that I was stupid but I don't believe I am beyond redemption. I honestly took your first response to heart. I didn't understand how you thought it was so cut and dry. Im aware that when we post on boards such as these we open ourselves up to blind judgements. I also realized that these boards also allow us to have a better look at those who chose to judge us. Therefore I decided to read every single one of your past posts. Now don't get me wrong the good definately outweigh the bad and you have given some good advice. However now I would like to ask you to take a better look at yourself before you judge me. According to your own posts YOU have been 1) seriously upset over something as harmless as a boyfriend being attracted to a celebrity (Britney Spears). have you never been attracted to a male celebrity? Granted he could have been more sensitive in his choice of words it is still simply an attraction to someone on t.v. 2) You generalized that men would be happy if their wives were falling in love with a woman! Simply because of the sterotype that men love lesbians. 3) You jump from guy to guy which hey thats not so bad but thats where 4 comes in 4) Your own friend refered to you as a slut. Now I don't know you from eve but I would assume that someone that you call your friend would be a somewhat qualified judge of your charachter (you still called them your friend even after they called you a slut) 5) You admitted to being in a relationship with a great guy but still not wanting your ex to date someone new. Now that seems quite jealous and spiteful to me but hey I dont know the whole story Im just going by your words. I will end my list with 6) You openly have a prejudice against people with tattoos. Saying I wont date someone because of something they have put on their skin is almost as bad (in my opinion) as saying you won't date someone because of the color of their skin. Now for all I know that may be a religious choice of yours which I doubt (see #'s 3 & 4 above). My reason for bringing all of this up is just to remind you that we should be careful of whom we judge because none of us are perfect. You determined soley on my post that I am not worthy of the love that I have in my life, and you did so without knowing a single thing about my relationship except for a stupid situation that I got myself into 1 night, that information tells you nothing about the almost 2 years my girlfriend and I have been together or the 8 years that we have known each other. In closing I will thank you twice, once for showing me how my girlfriend or some of her friends might react (as I am sure that she will turn to them for comfort)but secondly and more importantly you have made me see clearly that none of us are perfect. Tweet