Re: I was on the other side of the fence.

My girlfriend has a lot of friends she met online, almost all of them guys. She has visited a few and I didn't care, because if she wanted to be with someone else who am I to stop her. Anyway, she went to California for 4 days, to visit a friend she had met online. I didn't talk to her much while she was there because I have a life also. So when she returned, as soon as she walked in the door I knew something had happened (I can pick up on feelings and energy extremely well). I was going about things as normal not letting her know that I knew she did something wrong while away. It took her awhile to even start talking about it. All she said was that she did something terrible, and I said, I knew what you did as soon as you walked in the door. She started crying and told me what had happened. "We went to the bar, yadda yadda, we drank so much, lalala, in the middle of it I realized what was going on and ran out of the room and sat in a corner for the next couple hours wondering what had just happened".
I stayed with her after that, I knew how sorry she was and I belived her about the alcohol being a major part, bacause if you've ever blacked out while being drunk, you know how easily it is to be taken advantage of and how fast your brain leaves your head.

But, it will always be in the back of your girlfriends head (as it was mine) wondering if what you said was what really happened and if you were THAT drunk that you didn't know what was going on.

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