Ashton, while im sure your post was oh so objective I would appreciate if you would stick to constructive remarks. You are not in my relationship and therefore have no idea what I do and do not deserve. May he without sin cast the first stone. But for now I will assume that you have never made a horrible mistake and sincerely tried to find the most mature way to handle the situation. But what I can gather from your remark is that everything in every relationship you have ever been involved in has worked out perfectly and that you are apparently the perfect mate whom would never make a mistake. For this I congratulate you on you apparent infallibility.