Re: Asexuality.....

Hi eksangha
Yes I understand completely what you are saying. I agree with some, as I disagree with some also.

What you don't seem to understand is that I would be more than happy to wait for sex, months or maybe a year if I have to. But I can't be with him if I am as certain as I sit here that I will never have any form of sexual contact with him.

The thing is, I agree that sex is not everything in a relationship. But as a straight(excuse the word)girl I have NEEDS and at 19 I can't see myself not having sex ever again.

Please try to understand my situation. It is very beautiful what you are saying about your wife and am very happy that guys like you acctualy exist.
He is a bit like you, the difference is that now you do have sex, but we never will.
I know this may sound awful and I apologize in advance, but one day I might have to find what I will NEED somewere else.
What would that do? I don't think I need to answer that, you already know the answer. I would make things worst that ever.

It is awful since the other day he told me he loved me and I didn't answer back. He didn't say anything about it, probably thinking that with time I will say it back.

I DO have feelings for him.
But is it strong enough to be willing to live without sex?

Thank you for answering my questions
Take care

m_angel