Hi herb-gal!
Well you had me courious so I did go check out your post.
Our situations are very different and believe me honey,you can make a big X on him being asexual.
As a very young woman myself(not far at all from your age)I couldn't consider never having sex again,that would just be silly.I mean look at you...Not even 3 weeks and you are about to leave!!!
Now I don't know about you and if you love him and you think that you are soulmates,but I really like this guy,you know.That is why the situation is sooooo hard to deal with!
Hopefuly i'm gonna stop thinking about all of his qualities and all the respect he has for me...and try to leave and move on.
Staying can't be an option.
Well thank you for your letter and I wish you all the best with your bf
Take care!
m_angel