Re: Asexuality.....

hi eksangha.
I will have to say honestly that the more I read on this board, the more confused I get.

I would like to ask you a question, but you don't have to answer if you'd rather not.
Can you tell me, honesly, when you first met your wife and you did not wanna have sex with her, how did she reacted to it? Or did she reacted at all?

You've got to understand that you are wrong and that sex is not all that matters to me right now. But I do like this guy and wanna be with him.Never mind the sex for a sec ok. I can see me with him and be very happy, since he is the most wonderful a guy can be.

After awhile, you did have sex with your wife right? Well we(him and I)never will. That is the difference. Your not asexual and that's why you like sex now. But he realy is.

I know for a fact that the first time he had sex he was madly in love with the woman. But no matter how much he loved her, he just wasn't interested in sex at all.
In the end, she got bored with him and left. She broke his heart like no one did before.

I don't wanna do the same thing. I wanna be with him but just can't.
Just another question, if I may.
What happend that you changed your mind about sex?

Thank you for your time it is well appriciated.
Take care,

M_angel