Start reflecting back on your early childhood in a deep retrospective way.To the degree a daughters father is not her first male hero to that degree she will have difficulty coping with men later.No father is perfect okay but one of a fathers role is to define the sexuality of his children via role playing and interactions with his offspring.This is a rock solid axiom in child psychology.This is why therapists immediately want to know the family history.I am majoring in psychology and yes it is an off the wall buggie field.But the axiom about fathers imprint on their daughters is valid. Gee woman got you in my prayers. Email me at Dennyoooo@webtv.net if youwant someone who cares to rap with you. Love.