This isn't going off to anyone, nor is it an excuse to do something
Lady, you need to understand, there are many rape victims out there, and from RESEARCHES, those were the most popular excuses.
I'm deeply sorry about what happened to you, and I think it's funny myself, and ridiculous, but it's true, p 0 r n saves alot more people from rape than you know...not in your case, but in other cases, yes.
Facts are facts, no matter how you look at it, you got really unlucky meeting this man, and I feel for you, but please understand you're not the only victim out there, and I can most definitely tell you that most rapes are not caused by the need for vengeance, dominance, or others, as I said it was researched...not a question/answer session, a sequence of lie detectors, brain patterns, etc.
Oh, by the way, I NEVER MENTIONED that the absence of p 0 r n was a reason for men to rape, NEVER. I said that a PRESENCE OF p 0 r n REDUCES THESE ACTS.
My deepest sentiments.