Re: Watching p 0 r nos...straight male point of view

Female

Nice theory but your "guidelines" break down starting with the very first one.

You state that most women think they are disgusting. As a woman who thinks it is dsgusting knowing my husband is looking at p 0 r n is a big turn off. That's a negative.

p 0 r nos are not to be used to try and change someone who doesn't want to change? You mean to tell me that a guy who watches p 0 r n isn't going to try at some point to do what he's watched? Doubtful.

In number two you say the female significant other ( if any) must remain the CENTER of attention without any doubt. There should be no negative changes in this relationship.

By watching the p 0 r n you already take the attention off the SO. For however long it is you watch you are not considering the SO and you cannot tell me you are. No way when your eyes are on that retoughed...scripted, fake, shocking, crude piece of trash are you thinking of your SO. Don't buy it. Another neg.

Number 3 is a give.

Number 4....You've got to be kidding. You think that just because it is plastic or paper or film it means nothing? Hogwash! Everything you put into that brain of your is programing your mind. If you think positively most of the time you will be a positive person. If you have mostly negative thoughts that will affect your life and outlook adversly. You're going to tell me that using p 0 r n is no big deal? Try again. Advertisers pay big bucks for 60 seconds of advertising time on the most popular TV events...that is because they have the opportunity to influence many people. If what we see has no effect on us then the TV/movie/advertising industries would be bankrupt.

Number 5....nice thought but thats not the way it works. Fantasy or not it WILL have a negative effect on your life. If nothing else it gives the user and aire of being animalistic and shallow.

I tell you this from experience.