being a young man i may be able to give some insight. males are males. we have an extremely high level of hormones and that is a fact. we are in our sexual prime in our late teens. this may seem like some stupid excuse but really it is as simple as that. p 0 r n is an outlet for uncontrollable amounts of hormones. there are only a few options for men when it comes to release of pent up emotions. A. sleep with as many people as you can. B. take out agression by being violent. C. spiritual enlightnment i.e. meditation. D. self-gratification..
I just put it on the table for you.. This is the honest truth. The reality. self-gratification is very natural and put next to other alternatives it is the most safe. Women make the mistake of thinking that because a man looks at a women in p 0 r n that somehow they have this relationship with them..That is not true. They look at the p 0 r n. Release the pent up hormones, and go about their day. We dont think about these women in p 0 r n. We think about our girlfriends. Ask any guy if they would ever date a p 0 r n star and although the thought may be entertained, any man would admit that they could never be with a p 0 r n star.