Re: One More thing

Thanks again for your concern and replies. I have spoken with my GYN re: Urinary Incontinence. The kegel retrainer is supposed to help this. I don't think it is. It's not bad, but enough to be embarrasing at times. Horse riding, jumping on the trampoline with the kids, coughing, sneezing and other stress related activities seem to have an affect. I heard the surgery, can help this and the vaginal wall tightness. That's what I feel like I need my vaginal walls to literally be pulled together some. I feel the friction of intercourse on the outside, as I have a small opening, but it's the friction on the inside I can't feel. I feel him inside of me, just not the friction as I used to. It's like being in a small room and bumping up against the sides of the walls, but not literally rubbing up against the side of the walls. It's just not a tight fit on the inside. Again he has a large penis, I choke during oral, and have had no problems until my second child with the intercourse. During the examination with my GYN (he is empathetic) I think he is just against surgery if at all possible, he told me It's not that bad. He had me do the kegels so he could check and says I'm doing them right. I feel the kegels, but feel like I'm restricted on how tight I do them due to my vaginal walls being to far apart????? Thanks again and am open to anymore comments/advice. I really do appreciate it!