As a male, I think a woman should tell us "Baby please listen to me, I ONLY want to be heard, please don't respond. I'm sure if women would say that, we would do it, but that doesn't happen. We, as protectors, tend to try to help or solve problems, it's our nature. Either way , we lose, if we keep our mouth shut, she will think that we don't care and don't understand her. Am I right guys?