I agree with tracey. There are infinite realities and different people chose different ones at different times. It's all part of the perfect universe. Duality consciousness (ego) often looks for the illusionary comfort zone. Fear can keep us in that very comfort zone (locked in tight). What if someone didn't have a comparative? They wouldn't know then, that expericne A was 'better than" experience B. It's ALL experience. All things permissable in the creation.
Also we frame things as to whether they are preceived as good or bad. Another illusionary filtering process projected out of ego.